I loved the fact that we did not have too many grooms in each session, which allowed for much more time for each groom to discuss his questions and ideas or to add his feedback for someone else’s comments.  I was also pleasantly surprised by the level of interest that each groom showed with making his wedding better and more unique.  I was completely overwhelmed by the positive feedback I received from each and every groom at the end of the sessions!

While I was certainly there to promote my services, my primary goal was to get grooms thinking about their brides before they say or do anything.  I believe that I have accomplished that goal because every groom came up to shake my hand and requested a business card at the end of both sessions.  I know now that their weddings will be much more memorable and their brides will be happier too!

As a follow-up to the Groom’s Workshops, I am getting the details lined up for a Wedding Planning Workshop to be open for engaged couples sometime after the 1st of the new year – stay tuned for more details!!!

Look no further!  Here are my Top 5 tips for grooms to make the most out of every moment during their wedding day. 

Tip #5 – Be On Time

Being on time for your own wedding may sound like common sense, but I always recommend that the grooms arrive at least an hour ahead of time.  By getting there at least an hour before, you have plenty of time in case there is an emergency such as mechanical problems with your transportation, unforeseen traffic or detours or even tuxedo “malfunctions.”  In more than 25 years of performing wedding ceremonies and receptions, I have seen all sorts of scenarios cause delays – plan ahead and be prepared with alternative plans, your bride will greatly appreciate it!

Tip #4 – Get Plenty of Sleep

This may also seem like a no-brainer, but time and again I have seen grooms run out of steam long before their special day is a memory.  Whether it was a late night out with his groomsmen and best man or simply could not sleep from excitement or anything in between; your wedding day will test your levels of mental and physical endurance from the whirlwind of activities.  Fight fatigue and enjoy your special day more thoroughly by being well rested because you deserve to get the most out of your wedding!

Tip #3 – Be Sober

One of the biggest complaints I have heard from brides is that their groom showed up “lost in the sauce” or hungover from the night before.  This coupled with lack of sleep and not eating properly can lead to the groom fizzling out long before the festivities or worse yet, going down for the count during the ceremony.  This is made even worse by heat as it can be quite stuffy in a tux while you slowly simmer in the summer and after a night of liberal libation, your body will dehydrate in a matter of minutes.  Sometimes this leads to everything “going dim” for the groom as he goes down like a sack of potatoes, but it may also lead to serious injuries from the fall, dehydration as well as the heat.

Tip #2 – Eat Well

This may sound like the obvious, but I am always surprised by the brides as well as the grooms that skip meals or only eat lightly due to the butterflies or time constraints.  Be sure to eat a good, full dinner the night before and eat a hearty breakfast too; you will need the reserve energy long before the last guest has left and it is often six or more hours before you can sit down at your reception to refill.  Starchy foods such as pasta and bread at dinner will build up your reserves for the next day and eating a healthy breakfast will give you the additional boost that you will need to carry you through the day.

Tip #1 – Relax and Enjoy

The number one concern that I have addressed over the years has been that of anxiety, anxiousness, nerves and fretting over the minor stuff.  When it comes right down to it, hopefully you have hired professionals that you trust to handle the details not the cheapest; relax and let them worry about the small things.  One of the biggest things that will dampen the spirit of any celebration is the presence of a few wet blankets.  If the bride and the groom are unhappy, your family and friends will be too!  So smile, have fun and enjoy yourself – you have spent a lot of time putting your wedding together as well as the considerable financial investment that you have placed into too.

It’s your day, make the most of it!

Charles E. Snyder III
Certified Master of Ceremonies
Extraordinary Weddings
717.718.5218